Let’s look at the topics of having your life, being needy and your connection to your partner.
Everyone always says, “Relationships are so hard!” But that’s not true. It’s not relationships that are difficult, rather, it’s the people involved in the relationships that MAKE them challenging.
In other words, you can make your relationship better by doing two things:
- Requiring more of yourself
- Requiring more from your partner
You see, a lot of people are lazy. They think that relationships should just magically run like a well-oiled machine. But that doesn’t happen in real life.
Relationships take effort, and they can be healthy and happy if you know what to do. No one has a magic wand to hand you that will turn your relationship into a fairy tale. But if you follow these tips, you will be pleasantly surprised on how happy you become.
Here is some relationship advice for women so you can use every day to make that happen:
1. Have your own life.
You might be crazy in love with each other, but that doesn’t mean the rest of your life should stop.
Don’t abandon your friends for him. Don’t take up golf and give up your massages if you don’t want to.
Have some independence and an identity of your own. Because if you don’t, things will get boring and routine in the relationship.
2. Don’t be needy.
Being needy and chasing can go hand-in-hand. If you want to see him 24/7, text him 24/7, and basically think the world resolves around him, well, you’re being needy.
Needy behavior is suffocating for people, especially men. You think these behaviors will help you hold on to him, but it actually has the opposite effect – it pushes him away.
3. Make sure you connect physically, emotionally, and mentally.
Easier said than done, but these three things are crucially important.
If you’re just physically connected, but you don’t connect emotionally or mentally, then you won’t make it for the long haul.
Or maybe you connect mentally, but your intimacy is just “meh.” The relationship may be doomed.
You have to have strong bonds in all areas of your relationship, so make sure you keep an eye on that from the very beginning.
Hope you enjoyed the read and found it helpful.